HOLIDAYS AND DIVORCE

Christmas is the beautiful time of the year; the family gets together, laughs, cooks, and swaps gifts, but that does not necessarily apply to everyone in this Universe. When you are enjoying yourself, some are struggling with loneliness and sadness.

Moreover, not all family is picture-perfect; some may struggle with painfulness when a  separation or divorce occurs, making it heart-wrenching and painful as the year comes to an end.
Broken families will experience pain and loneliness when Christmas and holidays come around. So what can we do to make this holiday delightful?

First, we can't control the situation, but we can make it better by modifying the problem so the outcome will be enjoyable. We need to focus on our children, not ourselves. By focusing on your children, you are transforming the outcome of a situation from negative to a positive result. Focus on your children and treat your ex like a colleague instead of an ex. Speak on a business level instead of a personal level; keep it simple and professional.

Remember, your marriage may be doomed, but your relationship with your children shall continue everlastingly; therefore, it's best to remain unbiased with your ex to prevent your children from unfolding their healing wounds.

Again, Christmas is a time of peace and benevolence to people around us or people who cross our path. Let's celebrate in prosperity and rejoice in the spirit of Christmas. Focus on your children; don't make yourself a centerpiece of the matter.  Cheers, Happy Holidays!

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